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		<title>Self-actualization and blogging</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 23:38:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Everywhere we turn, we are bombarded with “feelings,” “needs” and “I” messages. Everyone is either in therapy, just getting out of therapy, or considering what a therapist could do for them. Dr. Abraham Maslow&#8217;s self-actualization and hierarchy of needs have &#8230; <a href="http://bryn.wordpress.com/2008/02/11/23/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bryn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=35506&amp;post=23&amp;subd=bryn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="justify">Everywhere we turn, we are bombarded with “feelings,” “needs” and “I” messages. Everyone is either in therapy, just getting out of therapy, or considering what a therapist could do for them.<span style="color:#3366ff;"></span> <font color="#3366ff"><a href="http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/maslow.html">Dr. Abraham Maslow&#8217;s </a></font><a href="http://bryn.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/images-310.jpeg" title="Dr. Abraham Maslow"><img src="http://bryn.files.wordpress.com/2008/02/images-310.thumbnail.jpeg?w=500" alt="Dr. Abraham Maslow" align="left" /></a><a href="http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/maslow.html"><br />
</a>self-actualization and hierarchy of needs have become the paradigm for modern society because what is “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness” if not the battle cry for each individual’s right to do whatever they want if it makes them happy. Now the concept of self-actualization is not in itself bad. It is the subtle shift into<u><a href="http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/dsm-iv.html"><span style="color:#3366ff;"></span></a></u><a href="http://www.halcyon.com/jmashmun/npd/dsm-iv.html"><span style="color:#3366ff;"> narcissism</span>, </a>powered by capitalism and consumerism, that is dangerous. The common good –– thinking about others in the larger society before yourself –– is mocked or derided if it is considered at all. People who care about these things are labelled “bleeding hearts,” “do-gooders,” socialists or much, much worse, as if being concerned about someone other than yourself or your immediate family is some sort of crime.</p>
<div class="snap_preview">It is natural of course to put the needs of loved ones and yourself above those of strangers, but that’s different than assuming that you and they are the only important people in the universe. And here is where blogs enter the picture. Like many of my generation, I recoiled from the very idea of them. I mean, who wants to, or has time to, read the online diary of a 12-year-old girl or a frat boy spilling their guts?  The concept reeks of the narcissism and self-fulfillment fetishes of the late 20th and 21st-centuries.</div>
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<div class="snap_preview"> And yet, now that I have blogged myself, my feelings have changed. Are most blogs badly written and maybe even narcissistic? Yes. But as with everything in life, blogs are as interesting or dull as the people who write them. That puts the onus squarely on the blogger. In other words, we have to be the kind of bloggers that we like to read and as every writer knows, that&#8217;s not always as easy as it seems.</div>
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		<title>If Dorothy Parker had blogged</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have taken the liberty of borrowing one of Dorothy Parker&#8217;s favourite expressions for the name of my blog as an homage to her, and also because it sums up my heartfelt response to many of life&#8217;s little surprises. I &#8230; <a href="http://bryn.wordpress.com/2008/01/30/if-dorothy-parker-had-blogged/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=bryn.wordpress.com&amp;blog=35506&amp;post=6&amp;subd=bryn&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span id="more-6"></span><img alt="" align="right" />I have taken the liberty of borrowing one of <span style="color:#ff6600;"><a title="Dorothy Parker" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dorothy_Parker">Dorothy Parker&#8217;s </a></span>favourite expressions for the name of my blog as an <em>homage</em> to her, and also because it sums up my heartfelt response to many of life&#8217;s little surprises. I could never hope to aspire to the peculiar, acid wit that characterized the late Miss Parker, however, I share her penchant for being nosy, difficult, and dedicated to speaking her mind.</p>
<p>She didn&#8217;t mind much about consequences, whether it was telling the House of  Un-American  Activities to shove off when they asked her to name names, or  leaving her estate to the NAACP. She was one of that rare breed who never betrayed her ideals even if others betrayed her.</p>
<p>Dorothy Parker is mostly remembered now for her <em>bon mots</em> at the infamous <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Algonquin_Round_Table">Algonquin Round Table,</a> but that era represented only a small part of her long life. She was a working woman, a journalist, critic, literary writer and screenwriter in an era when few women led public lives. Ahead of her time, and her gender, she struggled against inequality  and injustice &#8212; her radio broadcasts from Madrid during the <a href="http://www.english.uiuc.edu/maps/scw/scw.htm">Spanish Civil War </a>were  passionate in their defense of ordinary people pushed to the brink &#8212; and she pushed the boundaries in her own life.</p>
<p>Regina Barreca wrote in the introduction to Parker&#8217;s <em>Collected Stories</em>, that &#8220;Parker&#8217;s wit caricatures the self-deluded, the powerful, the autocratic, the vain, the sill, and the self important; it does not rely on men and small formulas, and it never ridicules the marginalized, the sideline or the outcast. When Parker goes for the jugular, its usually a vein with blueblood in it.&#8221; That reminds me of the old journalistic adage to &#8220;comfort the afflicted and afflict the comfortable.&#8221; Parker&#8217;s penchant for ridiculing the rich is well known: the media magnate <a href="http://www.zpub.com/sf/history/willh.html">William Randolph Hearst</a> was one of her favourite targets, and hosts. Biting the hand that fed her was another of her specialties.</p>
<p>But the publicly effervescent and witty Miss Parker had a dark side &#8212; she drank too much, smoked too much, was unlucky in love and she outlived nearly all of her contemporaries. She died alone in her beloved New York with only a daschund for a companion. While her writing may be largely forgotten now, her spirit lives on in this blog. I raise my glass in a toast to the indomitable MIss Parker. Hear, hear!</p>
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